Fostering is one of the coolest, most rewarding things you can do if you love dogs! It’s not always easy to do, and it’s certainly not easy to give them up. But it’s so worth it! Here are some FAQs asked and answered for you if you’re considering fostering for the first time, gathered over 4 years and 70+ dogs of hard-earned experience.
First things first, what is fostering?
Fostering means providing a temporary home for a dog. You can foster directly through a shelter, or for a private rescue. Fostering can be as quick as a sleepover, or last a few weeks. Dogs of all shapes, sizes, breeds, and personality types need fostering. A good rescue or shelter will work with you to find the right fit for your home depending on your level of dog experience, schedule, other pets or kids in the home, etc., and as long as you are upfront about how long you can foster for any amount of time is usually helpful!
Figure out what kind of dog you can commit to and for how long
Here are some questions to ask yourself:
DOES YOUR BUILDING ALLOW PETS? If no, you should probably wait until you move to start fostering. If yes, what are the restrictions (size, breed, etc.)?
WHAT ARE THE NON-NEGOTIABLE THINGS FOR ANY DOG IN YOUR HOME? Ex. You need a dog/cat/kid friendly dog because you have a dog/cat/kid.
WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU’D PREFER FOR ANY DOG IN YOUR HOME? Ex. You’d prefer house trained, lower energy, under 40 pounds. These things would be preferable, but they’re not deal breakers (and often things like housebreaking are not known in the shelter!)
HOW LONG CAN YOU COMMIT TO THE DOG? Some people can only give 2 weeks at a time due to work schedules. Others can commit longer. Even if you can only foster for a week, often that is helpful! Just make sure you’re upfront and honest with the rescue about how long you can commit, and what a deal breaker would be (ex. if the dog is aggressive toward children that’s a deal breaker because my neighbors kid comes over every week.)
Be aware that some rescues have a minimum day policy until they can move a dog if a foster isn’t working out, so have a plan until they can find a new foster (ex. you’ll crate the dog in a bedroom whenever the child is over until they find a new foster home).
Find a rescue you like working with
Sometimes you won’t know until you work with a few, and that’s okay! Think about how long you’d want to foster for—some rescues adopt dogs out quickly and save more dogs, some take longer because they wait for the perfect home for each dog they commit to. Some let you be a part of the application process, some have a team that does it all and just lets you know the outcome. Some rescues are breed specific—if you LOVE dachshunds, there are doxie specific rescues! Some give fosters more supplies, some rely on fosters to provide what they can for the dogs. Some rescues give fosters priority to adopt their foster dog, others have different rules about that. It’s okay to “shop around” and try out a few rescues to get a feel for who you jive with. Once you find someone you love working with, it’s also okay to just stick with them! There’s no right way to do it, only what’s right for you.
Decompression is key. It’s tempting to try to acclimate the new pup to your life as soon as he or she arrives. But many dogs are so stressed, they just aren’t themselves, and they need time to relax before they can be expected to be good companions. 2 weeks is usually the sweet spot for when a dog really relaxes and allows his or her true personality to come out—and often for behavioral problems to arise. Keep everything as calm, consistent, and routine as can be in the first 2 weeks.
Crate crate crate! The crate is probably my favorite fostering tool. It’s invaluable if you have more than one animal in the home—I never leave animals alone together even for a second until I’ve had them together supervised for at least a week. That includes when I shower, use the bathroom, brush my teeth, etc. I take one with me, or stick one in the crate. It’s also by far the safest place to leave a dog when you’re not home- no accidental swallowing of pillow buttons, eating of the couch arm, escaping the apartment or anything else. Here are some good crate training tips from Foster Dogs Inc.
A martingale collar can save a life. A martingale collar is one that tightens when a dog pulls, so it’s virtually escape-proof. You can walk the dog on whatever you want/like/need: a freedom harness, an easy walk harness, a gentle leader, a head halti, etc. But I always back it up to a martingale using a carabiner, because nothing else is really escape-proof if a dog is startled or intent on backing up.
Keep telling yourself this is not your dog! The worst and hardest goodbyes I’ve had are when I forget to remember that. I always try to think of it as dog sitting until that dog’s family arrives. That way, I don’t feel like someone else is taking my dog away, rather they are picking up the dog that I’ve had in my care for them this whole time.
Make adoption a celebration! If you do feel sad or cry, that’s okay. I only cry sometimes now, but for a while it was pretty much every time. Something that helped me a ton was starting a silly ritual with my fiancé whenever a dog got adopted. We take a tequila shot to the dog! It’s pretty silly, but it helps us remember that an adoption is a celebration, not a reason to be sad. So we say bottoms up! (Drink responsibly- especially if you have dog poop to pick up later).
Thanks for considering fostering! If you have more questions, you can visit HelloPigPen.com for more blog posts, or email me at email@example.com
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